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MissIndependance 62F
104 posts
7/17/2008 9:56 pm
warning signs


How do we know the warning signs of danger in a relationship?, have you ever thought about it?, often times is so easy to ignore the little red flags that keep popping out when we are involved with someone we care about, at first we think the other person is in a bad mood that day, or maybe they just had a bad day at work and he didn't mean to raise his voice at you, but he seems to always be on attack mode for no reason at all, I say this is a first sign that something is not right with the other person.So don't ignore the fact that the voice raising has turned into screeming. If you ignore it and later it turns into a habit that can lead to insults, put downs and verbal abouse, then you find yourself in an abusive situation that always means serious trouble for not only you, but for the entire family. So how do we avoid such danger?, I say nip it at the bud and get out before it goes that far!, why wait for the situation to go to extemes, don't igore your gut feelings that this kind of person is trouble, get out now or be sorry later.
Remember that you deserve and have the right to be in a relationshiop with someone who is respectful, trustworthy, and who will love you as Jesus loves His bride wich is the christian body, Paul, the apostle of Jesus says,

Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her."
Ephesians 5:28-29 "So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church." This also applies to dating situations, if your boyfriend is being abusive now, it will not end when you marry him.


ChispasT 68M
2183 posts
7/18/2008 12:40 am

You'll be surprised how many women endure such of situation , and more surprised to hear the reasons they give for taking such of abuse , this problem believed to predominate in the machismo society ,is no longer the case , it touches every segment of society and unfortunate sets bad example to the younger generation . You'll also be surprised how many women avoid the subject .


MissIndependance 62F

7/18/2008 6:08 pm

    Quoting ChispasT:
    You'll be surprised how many women endure such of situation , and more surprised to hear the reasons they give for taking such of abuse , this problem believed to predominate in the machismo society ,is no longer the case , it touches every segment of society and unfortunate sets bad example to the younger generation . You'll also be surprised how many women avoid the subject .
It's sad to hear that, co-dependency is a serious issue as well as abuse, both the abuser and codependent need therapy to get healthy.


amsed3
(miguel a severino)
70M

7/19/2008 5:05 am

….invitación

A los fines de ir dando cuerpo al primer encuentro de la Jaa…invitamos a los(a) amigos(a) a seleccionar el mes en que debemos realizar dicho encuentro para lo cual sugiero escoger entre uno de estos meses del año 2009:

a) Julio
b) Agosto
c) Septiembre
d) Octubre

Déjenos saber su preferencia…. y el mes que mas voto reciba... haremos el primer encuentro de la amistad donde coronaremos al rey y a la reina de la amistad..

Yo sugiero que esa memorable fecha escojamos a Tom, padre de la idea, el rey de la amistad…

y dejo a los demás escoger la reina de la amistad…para coronarlos en el marco de la referida actividad…

Así que a prepararse todos…

Santo Domingo, anfitrión del primer encuentro internacional de la jaa

Con afectos

Miguel Ángel..